I find differing Eastern and Western cultural attitudes and rituals around tea-drinking an endlessly fascinating area. Here in Blighty, we love a nice cup of tea and a sit down (more about which another time). There is a lovely informality about tea-drinking here, a place where tea is the ultimate social lubricant, spanning generations, and serving as a great social leveller. Unless you’re taking tea in a more formal situation, say for instance, with the Queen, in which case, a ritual element enters into the situation - tea delivered by footmen, impeccably poured, a precise routine practiced for centuries, followed to the letter. Yet I’m sure once poured, even tea with the Queen would probably break the ice a little. The idea of sitting down for the taking of tea has a whole other meaning in the cultures from which tea originates. Take Japan for instance, and its incomparable ‘chado’, or tea ceremony. It makes tea with the Queen look like the height of unbuttoned casualness.
This elaborate ceremony, which involves the preparation and serving of tea by a host to his or her guests, consists of a series of elaborate prescribed movements. Appropriate formal attire is de rigeur: kimonos for the host, either kimonos or other formal wear for the guest.

The ceremony occurs in a special tea house, usually of simple, subdued design.

Guests often wait in a separate enclosure, and when they are called to do so, ritually wash themselves in preparation. A light dish is sometimes served, with sake, as a preliminary, before the host summons them again.
There follows more ritual cleaning, using exact movements which have been carefully learnt (after years of practice). The bowls are placed in an prescribed order, and green tea is prepared using movements which have remained exactly the same over centuries (a Western equivalent would be the priest preparing bread and wine in a Christian ritual).

There is not much room for chat, as you’d expect. A complex series of bows and set phrases are exchanged. A sensual-spiritual experience devoted to the preparation, sight and smell of tea-making, it can last up to five hours.